relationships | Janee V. Henderson

Is that person really your friend?

Friends, how many of us have them? Hopefully, you were singing along as you read that line. It is helpful to start this conversation by emphasizing “friend.” The word “friend” seems to have become a catch-all phrase for reoccurring interactions with people. It looks like the way people describe friendships these days falls into two…

Saying good bye to deadweight

Take a moment to reflect on 2015, the good, the bad and ugly. Now, reflect on how many of those negative things you brought with you into 2016. Let’s call them dead weight. Many of us have things we brought into the new year that we should have left behind, only now are we being…

New Year Resolutions: How to make them and actually keep them

During the last 2 weeks of the year our TV, email, peers and even social media floods our brain with the idea that we NEED to make a New Year’s Resolution. I am not sure who came up with the first resolution but I can assure you that it is not a requirement of entering…

Owning your mess

This post is dedicated to all the people who are ready to grow even if that means being challenged. Owning your own mess means you have come to a point in your life where you realize you are not PERFECT. You realize that those imperfections are what make you human, and from time to time…

Diagnosis: Single and Unafraid

In recent years there has been such a big push to be “taken off the market”, “tie the knot “, or “jump the broom”. It seems no matter where you turn there’s ONLINE DATING, app dating, matchmaking companies and those few friends just waiting to set you up with a “nice” guy. My big question…