Are you the only one making an effort in your relationships?

Sometimes we all need a reminder every now and again. So here is your reminder to let that relationSHIP sink like the titanic, if you are the only one maintaining it. Some things are simply too big for one person to maintain alone. Let me hold your hand while I say this, conserve your energy…

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Is that person really your friend?

Friends, how many of us have them? Hopefully, you were singing along as you read that line. It is helpful to start this conversation by emphasizing “friend.” The word “friend” seems to have become a catch-all phrase for reoccurring interactions with people. It looks like the way people describe friendships these days falls into two…

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Failed New Year Traditions in 2022

Happy New Year!!! I just had a revelation that I want to share with you. If you were raised like I was raised, then your final days of 2021 were filled with cleaning floors, dishes, and clothes to prepare for 2022. The old folks said a clean house would bring prosperity and good luck in…

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How a Toxic Workplace Can Impact your Mental Health

Your job can account for a lot of time out of your day. On average adults spends more than 90,000 hours in their lifetime at work. If this isn’t tiring enough, factoring in the added stressors of working in a toxic environment can make the work week overwhelming. Every workplace will have difficult people, outdated policies and seemingly inept…

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The benefits of seeking a therapist of color

When seeking a therapist, it is natural to want to talk to someone who looks like you – even if it is on the most basic level. For People of Color, finding a therapist with the same cultural background who is also of color is a significant step toward a fruitful relationship. Culturally competent therapy…

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